Whenever there is a guy that I am
talking to it feels like every time, they like playing a game of how long it
will take me to crack before I text them back again because they haven’t
answered the previous text. Often this is what goes through my mind when I text
someone and they choose to watch all the episodes of friends and then text me
back:
1.
“Oh My God. He Probably thinks I’m weird, I am
weird. Oh my gosh, Shaking my head.”
2.
“He’s probably busy”
3.
“He found someone better.”
4.
“I think I might have sounded to clingy”
5.
“Fuck. I scared him off, again”
6.
“He’s hot and he knows that, so he wants someone
with a better face, why must I have this face?”
7.
“Obviously he lost his phone or got in a fight defending my honor."
Ultimately there are so many excuses
I could come up with to say to myself but sometimes let’s get it straight: He’s
just not that into you or he IS busy or he is human and he doesn’t know what to
say/do. Guys have lives and sometimes those lives get in the way of texting and
interrupt your very important conversation about hibernating bears (I was so
nervous that someone would stop talking to me once, I did this, don’t judge
me.) Sometimes it’s not that they are being mean and planning on making you
want to tie a noose over your neck, it’s just that they really have something
to do or they have something on their mind. When a person comes into your life
and you end up coming into theirs for the first time, it is true, the first
thing we usually do is text.
What we often forget is the fact
that we haven’t been in their lives forever so who the hell knows what they’ve
gone through or what they’re still going through, what classes their taking,
what job they have, what marks a past relationship may have left on them? We
don’t know and so therefore we can’t or at least we shouldn’t worry ourselves
and get obsessive over why they might be taking a little or a long while to
text us back. Go on with your life, don’t rush anything, especially a potential
relationship. Good things take time and you know this because when a boy or
girl finally texts you back, you get this feeling like you want to dance naked
at a supermarket. It’ll be okay, hang in there baby.
Now, we have to acknowledge that
there will be those times when a guy doesn’t text you back because he doesn’t
want to. I know, none of us want to face this fact because none of us are not
fabulous. We will always be fabulous but sometimes are fabulousness is not
meant for the person of our interest at specific point of time. You have to be
strong, you have to swallow your tears back and move on because honey it is not
worth your time. This is just one guy out of the sea of guys that are out
there. Don’t mistake yourself thinking that this guy might be the one, you’re
only texting, geez. Be confident in yourself and know that you deserve
happiness and you deserve someone who wants to talk to you and will talk to
you. You deserve the world, we all do.
Last but not least, have you ever
thought about the fact that he might be wondering what to say to you because he
feels not good at communicating and that he’ll fuck it up. Give him time, he
wants to impress you, he might even feel intimidated. Ultimately a guy will
text you back if he wants to and you’ll text him back if you want to. Establish
what you want, set your standards and don’t fret and try your best to not be a
clingy bitch. It’ll happen if it is supposed to happen. Stay Flawless.
Xoxo,
Jacob
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